In Her Own Words
About her
Myself? Human, woman. Londoner working on the Dorset riviera, looking for a long-term relationship outside this virtual environment.
About myself? Age real and photos recent. Expect the same from you. However, this exercise in virtual attractiveness seems to require more data. Gathered from a selected panel of long-term trusted and loved friends (no biases here ;-) I very modestly am: loving, loyal, polyglot, gentle arachnophobe, dependable, intelligent (IQ & EQ) active, confident, quiet, truthful, compassionate, independent with a heart for kindness, sharing, caring etc. Other hidden qualities (and some minor faults for good measure) to spice up life with a large dose of humour.
We and us are important words as are you and me and vice versa. Important people: family and friends. Happy Aunt to absolutely wonderful youngsters.
I love and like in random order: holding hands, travels, gardens, laughs, dancing, music, arts, antiques, dialogue (not monologue), cross country skiing, films and theatre, fish on a plate, honesty, walking boots, Greece, healthy food, arts, museums and galleries, voluntary work, swimming, politics, cats of all sizes, kitten heels, human rights, coffee, France, reading, meditation, ice-skating, seaside, herbal teas, cities, my job, evenings in and nights out, etc.
Dislikes: making lists, self-advertising and selfies, cheats, celery, rodents, selfishness, lies, spiders, putting up shelves etc.
If my profile resonates with you, I look forward to reading from you. A like is nice and a message nicer
About her ideal match
Yourself? Human. Man. You haven't taken 20 years off from your profile to attract a cougar.
Hard to define and no prescriptive list: shared qualities (see above) compassionate, strong, vulnerable, loyal, tolerant, generous-of-heart, aware of self and others etc...) Pheromonal chemistry (oxytocin not oxytoxic)
Honesty, humour, communication and emotional connexion, sharing core values and goals are important, as are mutual respect, commitment, together with (at least some) similar interests and others to discover.
I am happy with my life and looking for a long-term relationship built over time, a best friend, a partner in life with whom to write the next chapter together. I don't believe that lasting relationships can be built on initial lies. Everything about me here is honest.. and wasting time an insult to eternity :)
Bonus points if you are francophile and/or francophone, would like to move 2 left, right or both feet on the dance floor, can put up shelves and put down spiders.
PS if you don't like to travel I really am not a partner for you and hope you find a lovely lady.
Deal breakers: brexshiteer (I am incandescent about brexshit :)
What Her Friends Say
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About her
Country of origin: |
Ask me later | |
Location: |
Christchurch, Dorset, England | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
57 | |
Star sign: |
Libra | |
Height: |
5' 2" (157cm) | |
Body type: |
Slim | |
Looks: |
Very Attractive | |
Hair colour: |
Ask me later | |
Eye colour: |
Blue-Green | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship; Marriage | |
Have children: |
No | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
Postgraduate | |
Occupation: |
Other | |
Income: |
Ask me later | |
Ethnicity: |
Ask me later | |
Home language: |
French | |
Other languages: |
English; Other | |
Religion: |
Ask me later |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 200 miles of postcode district BH23 (Christchurch) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
56 - 69 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 8" (172cm) - 6' 11" (210cm) or taller | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Athletic | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily; Vegetarian | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Never; Occasionally | ||
Education: |
University / College student; Further education; University; Postgraduate; Private school | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
English; French | ||
Other languages: |
English; French | ||
Religion: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Sense of humour: |
Irreverent |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality traits: |
Cautious; Confident; Easygoing; Faithful; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Optimistic; Realistic; Sensible; Thoughtful |
Valued qualities: |
Charity; Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Moderation; Patience; Self-control; Tolerance |
Favourite clothing: |
My swimming trunks / bikini |
Favourite colour: |
Blue |
Hair style: |
It has its moods |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses only when reading |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Alternative; Blues; Classical; Country & Western; Dance / Disco; Electronic Dance Music; Folk; Gospel / Religious; Instrumental; Jazz; Latin; New Age; Opera; Pop / Top 40; R&B / Soul; Reggae; Rock; World |
Reading: |
I read books regularly; I read newspapers regularly; I read magazines occasionally |
TV habits: |
I don't have a television |
Movie frequency: |
Once or twice a month |
Movie preferences: |
Action; Art Films; Black & White / Silent; Comedy; Cult Classics; Documentary; Drama; Independent; Mystery; Sci-Fi |
Interests: |
Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Meditation; Music; Photography; Politics; Reading; Singing; The arts; Voluntary work |
Sport involvement: |
An active participant |
Sports: |
Canoeing; Cycling; Dance; Ice Skating; Swimming; Table Tennis; Walking; Yoga |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Visiting a museum or gallery |
Time online: |
I check in once a day |
Take drugs: |
Never |
Family size: |
I've lost count |
Family contact: |
I see them as often as possible |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Cat(s); Dog(s); Fish |
Pets (Dislike): |
Exotic pet(s); Reptile(s); Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Dancing; Intelligence; Showing affection in public |
Turn-offs: |
Sarcasm; Thrill seeking |
Work aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Politics: |
Green |
Feelings about using UrbanSocial: |
Curious; Optimistic |
Honesty: |
Extremely |