In His Own Words
About him
am a hopeful romantic, that is to say I hope romance is still out there and I’m lucky enough to find it.
What I am looking for is someone I can invest my very soul in. Someone who, in time hopefully, will wake up in the middle of the night, as we all do at our age! get back into bed and either sends a ‘LUV U’ text or call just to say goodnight again.
My fantasy is that I’ll find the lady who will be my last first kiss..
I am affectionate and tactile, I have no problem walking down the street hand in hand, stealing a kiss behind the menu in a coffee shop or between courses in a restaurant.
Thank you for your attention
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About his ideal match
Good manners are a must have.
Someone laid back with an eclectic musical taste, and a chamileonic fashion sense.
At home outdoors, from dog walking, shooting, paddle boarding or hiking across the moors with an O.S map a cacoon tent, a backpack and compass.
I love a good game of chess so some interest in that would be great.
I am a meat eater but would respect your personal views on food.
And of course a nice Netflix binge, cuddled up on the sofa with a takeaway and maybe some wine or cocktails.
Physical appearance, body shape, colour of skin are not as important as a 'spark'
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About him
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Clacton-on-Sea (COLCHESTER), Essex, England | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
59 | |
Star sign: |
Sagittarius | |
Height: |
5' 7" (170cm) | |
Body type: |
A few extra pounds | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair colour: |
Dark Brown | |
Eye colour: |
Blue | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; A long-term relationship; Marriage | |
Have children: |
No | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
Further education | |
Occupation: |
Retired | |
Income: |
Ask me later | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Christian / Catholic |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 40 miles of postcode district CO7 (Colchester) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
38 - 62 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
4' 7" (140cm) or shorter - 5' 7" (171cm) | ||
Body type: |
Average; A few extra pounds; Other; Curvaceous; Full figured | ||
Looks: |
Average; Below Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Blonde; Dark Blonde; Light Brown; Dark Brown; Auburn; Red; Changes Often; Other | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
No | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily; Vegetarian | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Never; Occasionally; Several times a week | ||
Education: |
Secondary; Further education; University; Private school | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
English | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Ambitious; Cautious; Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Philosophical; Quiet; Sarcastic; Shy; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Honesty; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Self-control; Tolerance |
Fashion sense: |
Classic (My tastes echo long-established norms) |
Favourite clothing: |
My pyjamas |
Favourite colour: |
Orange |
Hair style: |
Short; Straight; Disappearing |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Facial hair: |
I have a full beard |
Body hair: |
Light |
Disabilities: |
I struggle with mobility; I have a mental condition; Other |
Body art: |
Several tattoos |
Date activities: |
A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee; Going for a walk; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Classical; Country & Western; Dance / Disco; Folk; Heavy Metal; Punk; R&B / Soul; Reggae; Rock |
Reading: |
I read books occasionally |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Non-fiction; Science / Technology; Self-help |
TV habits: |
I watch television most days |
TV programmes: |
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Game shows; Movie Channels; Music Channels; Sci-Fi; Soap operas; Variety shows |
Movie frequency: |
I wait for movies to come out on DVD or online. |
Movie preferences: |
Action; Comedy; Cult Classics; Drama; Independent; Mystery; Romance; Sci-Fi |
Interests: |
Board games; Cooking; Gardening; Music; Photography |
Sport involvement: |
Watching from the couch |
Sports: |
Backgammon; Camping; Chess; Cycling; Fishing; Golf; Gymnastics; Hiking; Horse Riding; Hunting; Martial arts; Shooting; Stand Up Paddleboarding |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Food: |
Chinese; Doesn't matter; Fast food; Fine Dining; Gastro Pub; Italian |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at work: |
I don't work |
Pastimes of choice: |
Pursuing a hobby |
Time online: |
I check in once a day |
Family size: |
I'm an only child |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
For the right person, to the moon! |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Dog(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Cat(s); Fish; Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Exotic pet(s); Reptile(s); Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Body piercing(s); Dancing; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public; Sarcasm; Skinny dipping; Tattoo(s) |
Work aspirations: |
Get promoted |
Dream home: |
In the country |
Retirement plans: |
Living in the country |
Feelings about using UrbanSocial: |
Hopeful; Curious; Optimistic; Excited |
Honesty: |
Very |
