In His Own Words
About him
Life's too short. I've worked hard for too long, shying away & not taking any chances. Now it's time to see what I've missed & if it's too late... My loves in life are family (I'm a proud uncle & devoted son/brother), music (I remix & DJ, when I have time), food (always loved my food, I have a varied palate, big fan of world cuisine as well as UK produce) - and work. Although I can't wait til I can work less & relax more! Not alone, hopefully.
About his ideal match
I don't have an ideal type. You can't put people in brackets. You might miss out on something special if you look the other way or don't get to know someone more than just what they look & sound like. I will admit to being distracted by eyes & laughs. I'm not hung up on looks, background, social status, or materialistic things. Would be nice to find someone similar out there!
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About him
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Fareham, Hampshire, England | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
46 | |
Star sign: |
Gemini | |
Height: |
5' 8" (173cm) | |
Body type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Above Average | |
Hair colour: |
Greying | |
Eye colour: |
Brown | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship; Marriage | |
Have children: |
No | |
Want children: |
Maybe | |
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Never | |
Education: |
Private school | |
Occupation: |
Other | |
Income: |
Solvent | |
Ethnicity: |
Asian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
French; Spanish; Other | |
Religion: |
Agnostic |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 10 miles of postcode district SO31 (Southampton) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
44 - 49 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 0" (152cm) - 5' 8" (173cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Curvaceous; Full figured | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single | ||
Have children: |
No | ||
Want children: |
Maybe | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Never; E-cigarette User | ||
Drinking: |
Never; Occasionally | ||
Education: |
Secondary; University / College student; Private school | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy | ||
Ethnicity: |
Asian; Indian; Latino/Hispanic; Middle Eastern; Other; Mixed | ||
Home language: |
English; Chinese; Filipino / Tagalog; French; Italian; Korean; Malay; Spanish; Other | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
Sense of humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
The life of the party |
Personality traits: |
Ambitious; Confident; Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Optimistic; Outgoing; Philosophical; Quiet; Realistic; Sensible; Stable; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Mercy; Moderation; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite clothing: |
Anything, as long as it's black |
Favourite colour: |
Black |
Hair style: |
Short |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Facial hair: |
I'm clean-shaven |
Body hair: |
Average |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery |
Music preferences: |
Classical; Dance / Disco; Electronic Dance Music; Instrumental; R&B / Soul; Rap / Hip Hop; Reggae; World |
Reading: |
I read books occasionally; I read magazines occasionally |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Business; Fantasy; Fiction; History; Non-fiction; Sci-Fi; Science / Technology; Travel |
TV habits: |
I rarely watch television |
TV programmes: |
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Cooking / Baking; Motoring; Movie Channels; Music Channels; Nature/Wildlife; Sci-Fi; Sport |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Action; Comedy; Cult Classics; Mystery; Sci-Fi |
Interests: |
Board games; Computer & video games; Cooking; Internet; Investing; Music; Photography; Shopping |
Sport involvement: |
Watching from the couch |
Sports: |
American Football; Basketball; Football (Soccer); Martial arts; Pool |
Cooking: |
I love it! |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Chinese; Fast food; Fine Dining; French; Gastro Pub; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Pub Grub; Seafood; Sushi; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a week |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Pursuing a hobby |
Time online: |
I'm on several hours a day |
Take drugs: |
Never |
Family size: |
I've got a brother and a sister |
Family contact: |
I see them as often as possible |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Dog(s); Fish |
Work aspirations: |
Work fewer hours |
Religious attendance: |
Never |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Retirement plans: |
Seeing the world in style |
Feelings about using UrbanSocial: |
Nervous; Hopeful; Curious |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
