In Her Own Words
About her
Possessor of a big heart and a generous mindset, I’m a little like a favourite armchair ~ a reassuring place to feel Rest-ful rather than Rest-less. With an old fashioned charm that is gently frayed around the ages, but sure to bring a smile to your face. Easily jazzed up with a jaunty throw or a sparkly cushion or two, there’s life in the old girl yet.
That’s the playful side of me out in the open. There’s a serious part too. The woman who has spent the last twelve years building a meaningful life after the respectful end of a long term relationship.
In that time, I’ve been to university. Twice. Trained as a mindfulness teacher and now work as a mental health professional. Inner work along the way has included nature connection courses, and volunteering in Romania with a community garden project.
I love learning new things and regularly sing with a-Capella groups, and been having an go at playing Indian harmonium and tabla drums. Currently attending a djembe group I find connecting with others in this way to be uplifting and fun.
Having an active and healthy lifestyle is important to me and in addition to working with a personal trainer, I have recently started hiking. I also enjoy cycling around the local countryside on my Pashley Princess, complete with wicker basket and flowers. Less Lycra more lyrical but sets the tone for a romantic picnic for two.
With two wonderful sons who I love but have long since flown the nest, it’s time to find that someone special for shared adventures and making new memories together.
Why not take the weight off for a while, settle in and tell me the story of what brought you here…
About her ideal match
You don’t have to be perfect, but kindness and a willingness to give things a chance would make you a winner in my eyes. It’d be great if you also had a sense of humour as I’m pretty clumsy and goofy sometimes.
If you had a natural sense of curiosity, an adventurous spirit, and be up for wandering around art galleries, getting curious about historical artefacts, exploring the natural landscape, creating a delicious meal together, leaping around at a local gig, or just nattering away about life in all its complicated glory, well, that would be the icing on the cake.
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About her
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Stowmarket, Suffolk, England | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
62 | |
Star sign: |
Pisces | |
Height: |
5' 2" (157cm) | |
Body type: |
Curvaceous | |
Looks: |
Above Average | |
Hair colour: |
Other | |
Eye colour: |
Blue-Green | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship | |
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Vegetarian | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
Postgraduate | |
Occupation: |
Health / Social Care | |
Income: |
Comfortable | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | ||
Location: |
Within 40 miles of postcode district IP6 (Ipswich) | ||
Gender: |
Female; Male | ||
Age range: |
55 - 70 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 5" (164cm) - 6' 2" (189cm) | ||
Body type: |
Average; A few extra pounds; Curvaceous; Stocky | ||
Looks: |
Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily; Vegetarian; Vegan | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally | ||
Education: |
University / College student; Further education; University; Postgraduate | ||
Occupation: |
Arts / Music / Writing; Executive / Management; Medical / Dental / Veterinary; Political / Government; Self-employed; Student; Science / Engineering / Research; Agriculture; Public sector; Consultancy / Design; Health / Social Care | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
English | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Sense of humour: |
Light-hearted |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Ambitious; Confident; Easygoing; Faithful; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Optimistic; Outgoing; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Tolerance |
Fashion sense: |
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way) |
Favourite clothing: |
Something my (grand)mother made me. |
Hair style: |
Long; Curly; It has its moods |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Body art: |
Pierced ears; A tattoo or two |
Date activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Alternative; Blues; Classical; Folk; New Age; Reggae; Rock; World |
Reading: |
I read books regularly |
Books: |
Fiction; History; Non-fiction; Romance |
TV habits: |
I tend to watch cultural programmes |
Movie frequency: |
Once or twice a month |
Movie preferences: |
Comedy; Drama; Independent; Romance |
Interests: |
Gardening; Healthy living; Meditation; Painting; Reading; Singing; The arts; Voluntary work |
Sport involvement: |
An active participant |
Sports: |
Canoeing; Walking; Weight training; Yoga |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Chinese; Gastro Pub; Greek; Indian; Italian; Pub Grub |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Pace of Life: |
Go with the flow |
Time at work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Socialising with friends |
Time online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Family size: |
I've got a brother |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm unlikely to move |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Dog(s) |
Turn-offs: |
Sarcasm |
Work aspirations: |
Work fewer hours |
Religious attendance: |
I'm non-practising |
Dream home: |
Eco home in the countryside |
Politics: |
Left of centre |
Retirement plans: |
Doing voluntary work |
Feelings about using UrbanSocial: |
Hopeful; Curious; Optimistic |
Honesty: |
Very |