In His Own Words
About him
Although I am what they call a Sigma male I am a Friendly and outgoing wrong box thinker, who loves learning new things and debating about old ones.
like all men I like being alone but want to do that with someone. as I miss cuddles, holding hands, being affectionate in sainsburys and companionship.
I like cycling - mainly because I do not drive, cycle touring, camping, paintballing, and intend to start narrowboat life as soon as possible. I no longer dance but love a good bit of trance/progressive/viking trance, goth and darkwave or 80s synth and other genres are open to me.
About his ideal match
My ideal match would be able to fit neatly under my armpit for shelter and cuddles, 12/14 is my ideal size and someone active with their own life I can become part of but without taking it over, I love kids of all ages though have none of my own. Knowing what I know now I'd like to get to know someone before the change hits and help them through it. call it unfinished business. Being a friend is more important than beng a lover but I do miss special hugs and bath chats.
and my cats, I really miss my cats
I am happy just interacting and find my joy in that, chatting and snuggling up is alI I really need, I like cooking for others enjoy shopping and just doing stuff even laundry, I love holidays but hate airports.
Money and Status are not important to me, nor is social media.
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About him
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Easingwold (York), Yorkshire - North, England | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
56 | |
Star sign: |
Libra | |
Height: |
5' 11" (180cm) | |
Body type: |
Athletic | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair colour: |
Greying | |
Eye colour: |
Brown | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A short-term relationship; A long-term relationship; Marriage; Something casual | |
Have children: |
No | |
Want children: |
Maybe | |
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
Further education | |
Occupation: |
Other | |
Income: |
Enough | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Agnostic |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in Europe | ||
Location: |
Within 40 miles of postcode district YO61 (York) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
40 - 55 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 2" (157cm) - 5' 9" (176cm) | ||
Body type: |
Average; A few extra pounds; Curvaceous | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
Maybe | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian; Mixed | ||
Home language: |
Any | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
Sense of humour: |
Dry |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality traits: |
Cautious; Confident; Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Pessimistic; Philosophical; Quiet; Realistic; Sarcastic; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Contentment; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Humour; Moderation; Patience; Self-control |
Fashion sense: |
Outdoorsy (I'm usually dressed for the bush) |
Favourite clothing: |
Anything, as long as it's black |
Favourite colour: |
Black |
Hair style: |
Short |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Body hair: |
Hairy chest only |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Alternative; Classical; Electronic Dance Music; New Age; World |
Reading: |
I read books regularly; I read newspapers regularly |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Crime; Fiction; History; Mystery; Non-fiction; Sci-Fi; Science / Technology |
TV habits: |
I watch television most days |
TV programmes: |
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Educational; Movie Channels; News; Sci-Fi |
Movie frequency: |
I wait for movies to come out on DVD or online. |
Movie preferences: |
Action; Comedy; Cult Classics; Documentary; Drama; Horror; Independent; Mystery; Sci-Fi; War; Westerns |
Interests: |
Auto repair; Cooking; Healthy living; Internet; Meditation; Music; Politics; Reading; Sewing; Shopping; Woodwork |
Sport involvement: |
Bored to death |
Sports: |
Archery; Badminton; Camping; Chess; Cycling; Hiking; Martial arts; Rock climbing; Sailing; Shooting; Swimming; Weight training |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Food: |
Doesn't matter |
Go Out to Eat: |
I always cook at home |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at work: |
I always put in overtime |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time outdoors |
Time online: |
I'm on several hours a day |
Take drugs: |
Never |
Family size: |
I've got a brother |
Family contact: |
I see them as often as possible |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
For the right person, to the moon! |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Cat(s); Dog(s); Fish |
Turn-ons: |
Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Sarcasm; Skinny dipping |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s) |
Work aspirations: |
Get promoted |
Religious attendance: |
I'm non-practising |
Dream home: |
Eco home in the countryside |
Politics: |
Anarchic |
Retirement plans: |
Living in the country |
Feelings about using UrbanSocial: |
Curious |
Honesty: |
Very |