In His Own Words
About him
Hi there, I'm Brian. - 51, single, and fully embracing life. I'm an African American and I am employed in the mental health & substance abuse counselor who believes in connection, growth, and laughter. I'm here seeking a friend, a lover, a soulmate - and someone ready to explore life's adventures with me. Let's start with a spark and see where it goes.
About his ideal match
I seek someone, whose outgoing, attractive, smart, and intelligent, and confident in her skin. So if you are the one or can come close to this match, let's chat and see where it goes.
What His Friends Say
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About him
Country of origin: |
United States | |
Location: |
Tinley Park (Park Forest), Illinois | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
51 | |
Star sign: |
Cancer | |
Height: |
5' 10" (178cm) | |
Body type: |
Athletic | |
Looks: |
Ask me later | |
Hair colour: |
Greying | |
Eye colour: |
Brown | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A short-term relationship; A long-term relationship; Marriage; Something casual | |
Have children: |
No | |
Want children: |
Ask me later | |
Daily diet: |
Vegan | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Never | |
Education: |
University | |
Occupation: |
Health / Social Care | |
Income: |
Enough | |
Ethnicity: |
Ask me later | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
Portuguese | |
Religion: |
Other |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in North America | ||
Location: |
Chicago Heights (Illinois) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
43 - 52 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 6" (167cm) - 6' 11" (210cm) or taller | ||
Body type: |
Curvaceous | ||
Looks: |
Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Not important at all | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single | ||
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | ||
Want children: |
Maybe | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally | ||
Education: |
University | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Enough | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
English | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
Sense of humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality traits: |
Ambitious; Cautious; Confident; Easygoing; Faithful; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Melancholy; Optimistic; Realistic; Thoughtful; Trustworthy; Wild |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Mercy; Patience; Self-control |
Fashion sense: |
Classic (My tastes echo long-established norms) |
Favourite clothing: |
Shorts & a T-shirt |
Favourite colour: |
Brown |
Hair style: |
Short |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Facial hair: |
I have a goatee |
Body hair: |
Hairy chest only |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Date activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Jazz; Latin; R&B / Soul; World |
Reading: |
I read books regularly |
Books: |
Business |
TV habits: |
I tend to watch sport |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Action; Adult; Black & White / Silent; Documentary; Mystery; Romance; Sci-Fi; Westerns |
Interests: |
Cooking; Healthy living; Investing; Music; Reading; Voluntary work |
Sport involvement: |
An active participant |
Sports: |
Bowling; Chess; Golf; Martial arts; Swimming; Weight training |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Chilled |
Time at work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Exercising |
Time online: |
Less than once a week |
Family contact: |
I see them as often as possible |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Feelings about using UrbanSocial: |
Hopeful; Curious |
Honesty: |
Very |



