In His Own Words
About him
I have a fairly good life, steady work, lovely house and garden but I am missing that someone to enjoy things with. I have a cat that keeps me company and a camper van to escape at weekends in. I enjoy walking on the beach or the country park and would love to have a lady to accompany me. I try to live my life with as much love as possible as the universe has taught me that the more love you put out, the more you receive. Although I have the love of some very lovely friends, I am missing being in love. . I am a very loyal and faithful man and I do not take relationships lightly. I believe in being honest and open and I love chatting about anything and everything. I am also a very passionate man and love being romantic and treating a lady as a lady. I am spiritual but also believe in God as well as believing in the magic of crystals.
About his ideal match
. I am looking for a lady that I can be best friends with as well as romantically involved. I would like us to get to know each other first and see if we can be friends, as well as lovers, as I see friendship as the precursor to a romantic relationship. I am not looking for someone to live with, as I enjoy my space and routines, but someone to spent beautiful times together.
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About him
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Hastings, East Sussex, England | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
56 | |
Star sign: |
Capricorn | |
Height: |
6' 4" (193cm) | |
Body type: |
Slim | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair colour: |
Greying | |
Eye colour: |
Hazel | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
A long-term relationship | |
Have children: |
No | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Regularly | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
University / College student | |
Occupation: |
Self-employed | |
Income: |
Enough | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
None | |
Religion: |
Christian / Other |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 100 miles of postcode district TN34 (Hastings) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
40 - 60 | ||
Star sign: |
Capricorn | ||
Height: |
5' 0" (152cm) - 5' 10" (179cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Curvaceous | ||
Looks: |
Average | ||
Hair colour: |
Greying | ||
Eye colour: |
Hazel | ||
Has a photo: |
Not important at all | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Occasionally; Regularly; Trying to Quit; E-cigarette User | ||
Drinking: |
Never; Occasionally; Several times a week | ||
Education: |
Secondary | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home language: |
English | ||
Other languages: |
English | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Catholic; Christian / Other; Other |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
Sense of humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Confident; Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Optimistic; Outgoing; Philosophical; Realistic; Sensible; Stable; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Sexiness |
Fashion sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite colour: |
Green |
Hair style: |
Medium |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Facial hair: |
I'm clean-shaven |
Body hair: |
Average |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body art: |
Pierced ears |
Date activities: |
A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee; Going for a walk; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Classical; Dance / Disco; Folk; Instrumental; R&B / Soul; Rap / Hip Hop; Reggae; Rock |
Reading: |
I read books regularly; I read newspapers regularly |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; History; Non-fiction; Self-help |
TV habits: |
I watch television most days |
TV programmes: |
Documentaries; Educational; Motoring; Movie Channels; Nature/Wildlife; News; Sport |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Comedy; Drama; Romance |
Interests: |
Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Meditation; Music; Photography; Reading; Woodwork |
Sport involvement: |
Watching from the couch |
Sports: |
Camping; Hiking; Motorsport |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Chinese; Doesn't matter; Indian; Italian; Seafood |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Go with the flow |
Time at work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Socialising with friends |
Time online: |
Once or twice a week |
Family size: |
I've got brothers and sisters |
Family contact: |
I rarely see them |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
For the right person, to the moon! |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Cat(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Dog(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Exotic pet(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Erotica; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public; Power; Sarcasm; Skinny dipping |
Work aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious attendance: |
Rarely |
Feelings about using UrbanSocial: |
Nervous; Hopeful; Excited |
Honesty: |
Extremely |