In His Own Words
About him
What am I looking for on this site?
A well educated, sensitive, warm and loving woman who will allow me to wrap my arms about her and share a mutually satisfying partnership. I will be happy initially simply to share experiences that will help us grow together in mutual love and respect. The pace of any burgeoning relationship will be in your hands as I have a tendency to declare myself early - I know what I want from a lady and I know what I can offer her: Strength, passion, understanding, kindness and trustworthiness. I love to love and to be loved.
My main interests are music (I am a composer with 90-odd pieces having been published – not necessarily to your taste of course), playing online chess (badly) at chess.com. I love classical music.
Playing walking cricket (I can link you to a channel 4 film showing how badly I played at The Oval last year.)
I sing bass in two local choirs: The Sloane Square Choral Society and the Chelsea Chamber Choir. I dine in Cote on Sloane Square for special occasions – my favourite local restaurant by far (you can keep The Ivy – awful).
I have degrees in music, psychology, and Police and Criminal Justice Studies.
I love dogs but can’t have one where I live currently, my favourite breed being Lhasa Apso.
I used to lecture at the Police Staff College on Tactical Decision Making Under Stress (TADMUS) directly because of the Hillsborough disaster.
I lived in Brittany for over two years – a place called Pontrieux not far from Guingamp and in Espana at two different locations: Mollina and La Alcaidesa, and in Germany: Muenster and Celle.
What I seek most earnestly is honesty and good manners. If you decide I'm not the person for you please tell me why - surely we can be well-mannered even though we are only in virtual contact on this site, or WhatsApp, or whatever?
I guess I'm a sensitive and romantic soul that requires the respect and sensitivity that I will provide in bucket loads to the right lady.
About his ideal match
A warm, civilised, interesting, attractive, well educated woman with a cool sense of humour.
Compatibility, a love of music and fine dining.
Don't like smokers of anything.
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About him
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Kensington & Chelsea (Chelsea), London, England | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
76 | |
Star sign: |
Sagittarius | |
Height: |
5' 11" (180cm) | |
Body type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Above Average | |
Hair colour: |
Other | |
Eye colour: |
Blue | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship | |
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
University | |
Occupation: |
Other | |
Income: |
Enough | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
Other | |
Religion: |
Christian / Other |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in Europe | ||
Location: |
Within 60 miles of postcode district SW3 (London) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
59 - 70 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 3" (159cm) - 5' 10" (179cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Curvaceous | ||
Looks: |
Above Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Any | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian; Other; Mixed | ||
Home language: |
English | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
Sense of humour: |
Sophisticated |
Intelligence: |
Highbrow |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality traits: |
Confident; Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Optimistic; Outgoing; Philosophical; Realistic; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humour; Kindness; Sexiness |
Fashion sense: |
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels) |
Hair style: |
Straight; Disappearing |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Facial hair: |
None |
Body hair: |
Light |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A music concert; Dinner at a restaurant; Going for a walk |
Music preferences: |
Classical; Jazz |
Reading: |
I read books occasionally; I read newspapers occasionally |
Books: |
Fiction; History |
TV habits: |
I rarely watch television |
TV programmes: |
Documentaries; Educational; Music Channels; Nature/Wildlife; Sport |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Action; Documentary |
Interests: |
Card games; Internet; Music; Singing; The arts; Writing books |
Sport involvement: |
An active participant |
Sports: |
Chess; Cricket; Golf; Table Tennis; Walking |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Fine Dining; French; Gastro Pub; German; Italian; Seafood |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Go with the flow |
Time at work: |
I don't work |
Pastimes of choice: |
Socialising with friends |
Time online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Take drugs: |
Never |
Family size: |
I've got brothers and sisters |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Dog(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Thrill seeking |
Turn-offs: |
Sarcasm; Tattoo(s) |
Religious attendance: |
I'm non-practising |
Politics: |
Right of centre |
Retirement plans: |
Seeing the world in style |
Feelings about using UrbanSocial: |
Hopeful; Optimistic |
Honesty: |
Extremely |