In His Own Words
About him
Hello
Well... First impressions only tell part of the story. I'm naturally reserved until I know someone, but beneath that I'm warm, cheeky, and slightly mischievous, maybe worth discovering. Guess more comfortable I feel, the more of my personality emerges...
My friends would describe they'd describe me as calm and genuine, someone who listens more than they talk at first, get to know the real me, might find a sense of humour that catches people by surprise.
I've always been fascinated by psychology and what makes us who we are. What makes us tick never stops intriguing me—there's always something new to learn about ourselves and each other.
Family means the world to me, I'm close to them. Somewhere along the way, I've realised I'm happier slowing down, noticing the little things, and making time for the moments that often turn out to be the most memorable.
Love being outdoors, whether it's exploring nature, discovering scenic walks or simply enjoying some fresh air, I love making the most of my free time and finding new places to explore.
I'm at a stage where I know what's important: good people, meaningful conversations, plenty of laughter, and making memories rather than collecting things. Finding someone to share that with would make the journey even better.
I'm looking for a relationship where we're each other's biggest supporter and gentle challenger—encouraging one another to try new things, keep growing, and create a life that's richer because we're sharing it.
Why spend weeks trying to decipher messages when we could have a proper conversation? If we click, I'd happily swap messages for a quick phone call—only if you're comfortable. Who knows, it might be the start of something rather lovely.
About his ideal match
I'm looking for someone where we can both be ourselves, without pretending to be someone we're not.
Drawn to people who are authentic, kind, and know what they're looking for. Someone grounded, genuine and emotionally mature.
Mutual respect and openness and honest communication go a long way...
As for deal breakers? Mind games, unnecessary drama, and dishonesty. Life's too short, and time is too precious. I'd rather share it with someone who wants to embrace life fully, not simply exist, but truly feel alive.
What His Friends Say
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About him
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Leicester, Leicestershire, England | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
47 | |
Star sign: |
Cancer | |
Height: |
5' 10" (178cm) | |
Body type: |
A few extra pounds | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair colour: |
Bald | |
Eye colour: |
Brown | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A short-term relationship; A long-term relationship; Something casual | |
Have children: |
Yes, living with me | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Vegetarian | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Never | |
Education: |
University / College student | |
Occupation: |
Political / Government | |
Income: |
Enough | |
Ethnicity: |
Indian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Hindu |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 60 miles of postcode district LE4 (Leicester) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
35 - 60 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 0" (152cm) - 5' 9" (176cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; A few extra pounds; Curvaceous; Full figured | ||
Looks: |
Above Average; Average | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed; It's Complicated | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily; Vegetarian; Vegan; Hindu diet | ||
Smoking: |
Never; Occasionally; Regularly | ||
Drinking: |
Any | ||
Education: |
Secondary; University / College student | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Enough; Comfortable | ||
Ethnicity: |
Asian; Indian; Latino/Hispanic; White/Caucasian; Other; Mixed | ||
Home language: |
English | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Atheist; Buddhist / Taoist; Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Hindu; Jewish; Spiritual, but not religious; Christian / Orthodox; Sikh |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
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